Good advice, April….and for all practical purposes, it would make sense. But there are issues that one needs to understand that I am dealing with, and here they are:
1. We both have our names on the lease and the names cannot be taken off without the situation getting uglier with the landlord
2. Even if I took her name off the lease, I cannot afford to rent the apartment on my own. Finding another roommate would take time and I dont have any funds to manage on my own until then
For the last few days now, she has become friendlier, but it is very very obvious that she is treating me just as a friend. There is NO romantic affection. She probably sees her ex a few times a week. She takes extra food to work to feed someone else as well. In addition to that, she deletes ALL her call history on her cellphone every night when she gets home. I dont understand that. Why is she being so nice andkind to me that she did laundry for me, went out for a walk on the lake with me, had dinner in an Indian restaurant with me, and bought some jewelery together (she paid for her stuff, not me). Either that she is a conniving bitch (which I know she is not), or that she thinks she is not doing anything wrong.
Somehow I feel that there may be a third person involved. Not sure of it, but maybe there is. I dont have any proof. The thing is that since we never officially hooked up as a couple, I cannot even confront her about her deleting her call history on the cellphone. I just randomly checked it the other day and it was blank. It was a red flag. But how can I talkto her about it? She will obviously flip out that I checked her phone.
So I dont know how. Help me make sense of it. I want her to walk her talk and show through actions that she means what she promised me so many times.
