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    April Masini
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    Me and this guy have been hanging out and fooling around but he admits he has commitment issues. He doesnt want to put a label on us yet. If we go one day without seeing each other he’s calling that he misses me we love to be together every second. Is this worth pursuing I dont want to push him into a relationship but I want a title on it. What should I do?

    #15686
    Fridaykaye26
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    If he says he does not want a commitment, he means it. Do not push for a label or you will scare him away; labels are over-rated and don’t always define the magic between two people. It is hard to do that when you really care for someone, but unfortunately in your case, you have to take it however it comes if you want to continue having him in your life.

    Honestly, you deserve someone who’s proud to call you his girlfriend.

    #15702
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    I like what [b]Fridaykaye26[/b] wrote — and I agree that you shouldn’t push him into a formality he isn’t ready for. One of the first rules of dating is to give the guy something to pursue. If you’re the one pursuing your “title” or definition of the relationship, you’ve broken one of the cardinal rules! 😯

    You didn’t say how long you were dating, and that information matters. If you’ve been dating for ten years and he still won’t introduce you as his girlfriend, you have big problems! But if it’s just been a month or two, then you have to assume that you’re both free to date others until he decides he wants to be monogamous and serious with you.

    I hope that helps. You might get a lot out of reading Think & Date Like A Man. It’s a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right, but for you, it will give you a lot of these rules that really do work in dating and relationships. Here’s the link so you can buy the book:[url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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