[katie0893]

this might sound stupid but im 16, and ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 months. however, we always seem to argue about stupid things and it always ends up with him not wanting to be with me no more. but when we are together and no one else is involved we get on absolutley great. yesterday i was on facebook and he wanted to check his he had a comment off an “old school friend” and when i asked about it he started sayin i was too controllin and obsessive, to which i answered its because im insecure. he then started sayin “how is it my fault?” and seemed to be bringing his ex girlfriend into all the conversations we had. i think he still likes her. i then questioned him about that and he turned round and said “oh but your okay to have your ex’s number and still speak to him” which i told him i would delete. we then started arguing and he gets annoyed very easily as he has ADHD and impulsive behaviour. and we split up, now i dont know what to do as i love him, but is it worth all the arguing? and where do i go from here as i feel as though i cant get over him.

[April Masini]

I know this isn’t going to be what you want to hear, however I’m going to say it anyway…

You are both very, very young — too young for a serious relationship, and especially one with lots of fighting. In my opinion it’s in your best interests to expand your horizons and look for some one you don’t fight with all of the time. It is going to take you a little while to get over him, but as soon as you meet some one else who is of interest to you things will get much easier.

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