[jovi28]

Hi April,

I’m wondering if it would be well recieved to get him a father’s day gift? as I mentioned before we are long distance, but I am going to be in his town for a reunion that weekend. He has two kids 8 and 10 from his marriage that ended five years ago.I responded to his e-mail, but haven’t heard back yet so I’m not sure if I should. Just want to get him something to say happy father’s day, nothing personal. Do you think I should follow through on this idea?

[jovi28]

Good news!!!!!!!

We finally talked last night!!!!!! I’m so happy. It’s wasn’t a big conversation, but it’s a start. A mutual friend of ours had emailed him and he said he didn’t know how to get a hold of me since he deleted all my contact info. He said he tried to find me on facebook, but couldn’t (I hide my profile) So i just sent an email saying hey, I heard you tried to find me on fb. What’s up? How are you? Hope you’re great. Well…he responded right away. Asked how I was feeling with the MS, said he hoped I was feeling better and asked how things were. That’s the first time he didn’t just delete the email. Giving him some space defintly worked. I know it’s a baby step, but it’s a step. Before he was ignoring my existance. Here’s hoping to another baby step soon.

[jovi28]

Thank you so much April, those are fabulous ideas. It’s been a cpl weeks since I contacted him and I think some of the things you suggested will help. I will let you know how it goes. Thank you very much!!!

[jovi28]

He’s my boyfriend, but I sent that text because I really want him in my life and would at least like to be friends. Of course ultimately I do want the relationship back. I wish I could do something special for him to show him how much he means to me, but like I said he’s totally ignoring me.

Thx,

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