[Cristian23]

well i called her, it was a little late in the night but i called bfore her bday was over, she didn’t pick up and as i was leaving a voice mail she called back, i was calling with a friends phone since mine got washed, and she asked who it was and i just said everything i needed to say “hey its cristian, just calling to wish u a happy bday i know its late but i was hoping that u had a wonderful day today, (there was a brief pause and she didn’t say a thing so i just said) ok well its late so ima let u go, bye”….and that was that…how should i play this off now??…i called her on the 18th, should i call her again or just let things follow their own way???

[Cristian23]

those are really good ideas, and i would love to do all of them…but the thing is that this is the first birthday that i would congratulate her for i didn’t know her before…so i really don’t know if it would be a good chance to try and start talking to her again….

[Cristian23]

I understand what you mean…do you think i should get her something for her birthday or just try and build a friendship relationship first or atleast begin talking to her?….

[Cristian23]

I get exactly what you are saying…it not only hurt her but it hurt me but i was able to stop it from getting any further…it was my one and only time…i’ve done a lot of things to improve my self…not only did i change my physical appearance but i’ve changed my personality in areas where change needed to happen…i don’t really know if she has noticed this but i can say that she’s the type of girl that is very stubborn, worries too much bout what others think, and follows her friends advice a lot….should i try to make any moves like call her or try and send her a b-day gift since her b-day is coming up next month or should i stay put and let fate roll the dice?….

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