April Masini is Ask April, founder of Relationship Advice Forum, this is not the kind of problem that can be easily swept under the rug. It’s important that you make a point to speak with your parents about the situation and have a conversation about their disdain for this special person in your life. “This is often a new step in an adult child and parent relationship and, if they can attribute this positive dynamic to the fact that you have this particular fiancé, they’ll feel better about that person,” says April Masini, New York-based relationship and etiquette expert and author. Ask them how they feel and listen to them intently, but be careful not to point fingers, as this may set your own relationship with them back.