April Masini is Ask April, founder of Relationship Advice Forum, to find out how to make a wedding comfortable for everyone, INSIDER spoke with April Masini, a relationship and etiquette expert. “If your divorced friends or family members are at Defcon 5 and they can’t be in the same building without taking sides and drawing a crowd because of their fighting, then invite them and be prepared for drama,” Masini said. “Or don’t invite them because they have restraining orders out against each other and you don’t want any hijinks.”