[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t say anything. This is none of your business. This is a matter between a guy and his girlfriend. When any third party like yourself gets involved, it’s called gossip. And gossip is never a good thing. Rumor, innuendo — it’s all the root of dysfunction and problems in relationships, so try and remember that you should focus on your own life — and that wonderful man you have for yourself now — and leave this other woman and her boyfriend alone.

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