[April Masini, your AskApril]

He’s trying to [i]impregnate[/i] you? 😯 Wait — are you a horse that’s used for breeding? The way you described the situation it sounds like you have nothing to say about getting pregnant. 😕 I DO HOPE you’re using birth control so that YOU have some control over whether or not you get pregnant — especially since you don’t have a commitment from this guy who doesn’t sound like he’d be responsible if you did get pregnant! Be safe, healthy and careful!

As for your questions: [quote]April, do you think he is seriously unhappy with his relationship or is he just telling me what he thinks I want to hear? If he is unhappy why wont he just leave her? I really am catching feelings for him, we have a close bond, and I feel at peace with him, like everything will be fine no matter what. I would love to be with him but I refuse to ask or demand that he leave his girlfriend. It’s getting hard for me to continue this with so many feelings….should I continue and hope he leaves her or throw in the towel? [/quote]

No — he is not seriously unhappy with his girlfriend. If he was, he’d stop seeing her! 😯 He’s been with her for three years, so he likes her enough!

No — you should not continue to see him and hope he leaves her. He will never leave her. He’s probably got other women he’s seeing, too.

You have to take responsibility for your own happiness and success when it comes to dating. If a man isn’t going to be Mr. Right, don’t waste time on him. It’s not fair to you — or to him. Read my book, Think & Date Like A Man, and follow the rules in it. Here’s the link where you can download it immediately: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. You can also buy it on Amazon.com or the website for Barnes & Noble. Buy it and read it!! It’s going to help you get back on track to success in dating.

I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes, and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter, and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].