ummmmm I would say i dont blame her for wanting him in her life—-she is much older than you—and she is the person she is today because of past relationships…he is obv important to her…. BUT…pls make sure you are not just filling a void for her because her ex is emotionally unavailable due to being bipolar…. do you think she still loves him more than a friend—-be honest with yourself when u answer this queation….do you think she would still be with him if he wasnt bipolar? If so—-you need to tell her its all or nothing–she cant have her cake and eat it too…well she can…but its up to you if u want to live like that. Just make sure she truly wants to be with you and that she is over her ex for sure—and the best way to find out is ask.
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