[Anonymous]

Are you serious? This advice is sounding a little too Angelina Jolie for our tastes! While you probably aren’t the make it or break it of a relationship that’s obviously already on the rocks, have some self respect and don’t chase after attached guys, no matter how much you like them or how much you think they’re unhappy in their current situation! At best, you end up getting the guy when he’s available to you and you can look yourself in the eye in the morning. At worst, you’ll avoid hitching your wagon to a guy who is co-dependent, doesn’t respect his supposed loved ones, and isn’t a man of his word.

Our advice? Let him know you like him, but you aren’t interested in dating a guy who is already attached. End of story. Don’t explain, don’t tell him to break up with his girl, don’t tell him to call you, and don’t flirt with him.

If he is a good guy worth having, and if he really wants you with good intentions, he’ll split from his current relationship and pursue you on the up and up. I would keep him at arms length for at least a few months. You don’t need to be rebound girl or one-night-stand girl.

If all of this means you lose him. Well, consider yourself lucky for having avoided the pain and heartbreak of being in the same position his current girlfriend is in today, and be happy that you can respect yourself for not being the pointless cause of someone else’s hurt.

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