[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t blame her. This isn’t her fault. You don’t have the three year relationship with her. The reality is that your boyfriend is interested in this other woman and is making it very clear to you. I think this is a sign that he’s not as serious about you as you may have thought. My advice is to accept this and move on.

I’m sorry. I think you’re not so confused as you are devastated, hurt and disappointed. You have every right to be, but don’t take those hurt feelings and act dumb. Don’t meet her. Don’t confront her. Don’t call her again.

Just move on.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.

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