The problem with telling lies about yourself is that they build. 😳 You can’t take away the fact that you lied to your fiance, but you can prevent a terrible situation from exploding. If he finds out from his friends that you lied, he’s going to have a terrible time trusting you — much worse than if you come clean now and tell him that you made a mistake when you didn’t tell him the truth. You can’t keep living like this, and you have to face your fears and tell him that you were afraid that if he knew how many men you’d slept with, he wouldn’t want you. Give him the respect to make the decision about whether or not to continue the relationship, himself. If you don’t, there’s a good chance it will end when he finds out the truth. Admit your mistake (not telling the truth), because it’s much better to admit a mistake than to let it become a giant lie over the years that turns into a betrayal.
You can do it. You’ll feel better afterwards, no matter what the outcome.
Let me know how things go, and don’t procrastinate on this!
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