[April Masini, your AskApril]

The main point in your post is that she was due to have her baby in October. Since it’s now early November, I trust she’s had her baby — or will any day now. This is a time for her to focus on her child, her family and any relationship she has or is going to have with the baby’s father.

I know you have a penchant for doing good deeds, but sometimes the best thing you can do is to step back and let people work out their own problems themselves. 😉

It’s fine to be friends with her, and you shouldn’t worry what other people think, but it’s important to remind her that the baby has a father who should be part of his or her life regardless of HER feelings about him. 🙂

I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes, and follow me @AskAprilcom (no dot!) on Twitter, and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].