[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re entering dangerous territory! Since you want to get back together with her, I understand that you don’t want to lose contact with her, but if the terms of being together are her telling you about the other guys she’s dating, you’re putting yourself into doormat position. 😳

I think it’s time to make it clear that you want to date her, and if she’s not ready, then you have to move on. She knows how to contact you, and if she knows you’re serious about her and that’s the only way you’ll see her, then you’ll have to trust that when she’s ready (if she’s ever ready), she’ll do just that.

But for now, you don’t want to turn into one of her “girlfriends” that she chatters about new guys with.

I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes, and I hope you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter, and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].