[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m sorry you’re in such a bind. What you have to realize is that this guy doesn’t want to be with you. He is clearly interested in lots of other women and there is nothing you’re going to do to change that. He isn’t going to give you the commitment you want.

You, on the other hand, are four months pregnant and made a mistake to move to New Zealand to follow him. You need to go back to England and surround yourself with family and friends who love and support you and are there for you no matter what.

Focus on you. He’s not interested.

I’m sorry for you pain, but there’s no tricks here. Let me know how things go — and join me on Facebook. Here’s the link for AskApril.com on Facebook: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].