I can’t tell if this is completely doomed or not because it doesn’t appear there is clear communication on what he wanted from you to begin with and what caused the break up.
One of the reasons I suggest all the tips and advice in Think & Date Like A Man, is because THEY WORK! 😆 When you moved in with him “quickly” you didn’t really get to know him or his intentions very well and it isn’t clear what yours were either. From what you describe in your post, it still isn’t clear what you want from him except for him to be “his old self”, but he’s saying he thinks you’re too pushy.
My advice is not to try and create something that doesn’t exist. Instead, buy and read Think & Date Like A Man. Here’s the link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. It’s going to help you a lot in this relationship — and all others that come your way.
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April Masini, your AskApril