thanks,,i’m actually a woman..and she was my partner. I just feel like she is loaded with excuses..like she went to aa but everyone is too religious there, her therapists didn’t work, and she has said she won’t do rehab. i suppose me letting her be was the right thing. i started enabling her b/c i love her so much and wanted to protect and help her but i realized i was making things worse. i never even knew an alcoholic let alone dated one..i thought love would save the day but it won’t.
should i keep in touch with her or not talk to her to see if that sparks her to want to get help? another thing is, she drives on a suspended license to grocery store etc but when i talk about her getting help..she say…oh that s not fair, i can t drive to get there
!! she picks and chooses where she drives!!!! ughhhhh
and to think, i was thinking of having her move by me or move to a new state with her..hmm
