AnonymousThanks for your prompt response.
You talk about the fact that behavior means more than what she is telling me. What would it mean if she at this point introduces me to her family, as she has been saying she wants to? Would that not be a behavior showing that she really does like me as more than just a friend?
What gets me about this girl is that if she knew from the start that she wasn’t ready to commit, as she likely must have, why would she let it go as far as she did? She says she is completely honest with me in telling me that nothing was wrong with the pace we were moving at, and how I was behaving. I just don’t really understand why suddenly this would appear as an issue.
I wonder if maybe I shouldn’t have confronted her, and instead just given her space over christmas. Maybe then things would be back to normal. I realize im just throwing stuff out there right now that may or may not make any sense to you, I guess I’m just looking for someone to tell me that things may actually get back to where they were. Honestly though, will they?
