[Anonymous]

Beyond the random book advertising, suggested reading material or attempts a “clever” tricks to coerce him into the position you want him in, not all men want to chase, they aren’t a mystical beast with accompanying all-encompassing text explaining their mysterious personalities.

I’ve a simple few comments as follows:

He has stated he isn’t interested in a relationship with you
Read: He is using you for what he wants; who wouldn’t take a younger partner with no strings attached?

He isn’t interested keeping contact with you
Read: He isn’t interested in keeping contact with you

You are unhappy with this situation
Read: You should be happy in any position you put yourself in, remove yourself from uncomfortable positions

Short periods of time together feel wonderful
Read: You want a relationship and ignoring the fact you are not in one when together allows you to feel happy; imagine how you would feel in a relationship with someone who bothered to contact you?

[quote]I am tired of this situation and want to go away from him, even if i love him. I feel I’m getting more hurt than happiness from this relationship.[/quote]

I don’t think you really need anyone elses advise, or to read any books or be preached to about what men want or how they are. Take yourself out of the situation, make yourself happy without a mans help, find the kind of man you want in your life and then bother to look for one.

I wish you the best of luck!