[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you’ve never really dated — you’ve only had contact online or on the phone. You conducted a relationship for over four months like that, and when you were finally ready to meet, she stood you up. The bottom line is that she doesn’t want a “real life” relationship with you. 😳

The internet and technology are great tools, but they’re not substitutes for the real thing. Don’t waste any more time on a woman who’s told you to lose her phone number and has blocked you and your friends from Facebook. She’s sending you a message loud and clear, and it isn’t pleasant. Instead, look around you for a girlfriend. You’re on a huge campus with lots of women — find someone in real life you can ask out shortly after you meet her so there isn’t the pressure of so many months of building a relationship that doesn’t include meeting in person.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go — and join me on Facebook. Here’s that link: [url][/url].