[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re exactly right — [b]you’re[/b] the one who can make life straightforward — or confusing. Decide that you want to be treated well and make that your goal. If you really do that, this guy won’t even be on your radar screen. “Offensive charm” only sticks if you’re desperate to be charmed. Don’t be desperate. Be sure of who you are, what you have to offer, and what kind of man you want to offer it to. Choose character over charm any day.

I hope that helps!

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