I am blaming him only for exactly what he did – What he did was ask me out for a date for a date certain, not just some time in the future and yes, he asked me for the date with no hints from me to do so, then he followed that up with a couple of weeks of communication telling me how excited he was about meeting me, and then he disappeared. Had I not run into him on the dating site, received confirmation from him that the date was cancelled (which he would not have provided on his own), and found another date, he would have stood me up.
So how is he free from blame and what is my behavior that I’m not wanting to take responsibility for? All I did was accept a date.
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