You’re investing way too much energy in this guy you’ve never even met. 😳 That’s why I want you to read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you can understand how NOT to waste time on someone you don’t really know and date smart! 😉
It’s great to use the internet as a tool, but you have to use it well. After four months, a guy you’ve never ever met, who lives two hours away from you (which means four hours of driving round trip for any given date! 😕 ), finally asked you out and then basically disappeared — and put his online dating profile back on the dating site you originally met on. 😯 He probably would have just never have shown up for the date, but instead you pursued him so he finally cancelled the date, and has stopped contacting you at all. And you’re emotionally invested in someone who never was into you enough to date you.
I know you had conversations online that led you to believe otherwise — but behavior trumps dialogue, and if a guy doesn’t take you out after about three weeks online, he’s not that interested in you. I can see how you want to blame someone — but if you read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], you’ll understand how men behave and why, and what you can do to not be in this kind of situation.
April Masini, your AskApril