[April Masini, your AskApril]

Run! In the other direction. I’m not sure how old you both are, but if he’s dated you for six years and can’t commit, you have a guy who doesn’t value you. You deserve more. Forget him (I know this is going to be hard, but you deserve more than you’re getting from him.) and start dating other men to find Mr. Right.

I’m sorry this is harsh advice, but you’ve wasted a lot of time with a guy who’s clearly not ready to commit when that’s what you want. If you stay with him, prepare yourself for more years without a commitment. You’ve made it way too easy for him to behave the way he has. If he shows up at all, at this point, it needs to be with a ring and a date. Otherwise, get back out there and find your Mr. Right! 🙂

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