I don’t think you were actually stalking her, but you weren’t being very direct, and that’s a turn off for some women. They like confidence, and when a man is confident, he goes after what he wants instead of indirectly lurking on her social websites making random comments. I’m sure you understand your mistake now. 😉
As for your friendship, men and women can’t be friends — and you’re seeing why, firsthand. One person always likes the other one more at some point, and when you’re interested, romantically, you’re not honest — and that’s not friendship. If you were honest with her, you’d ask her out on a date. But putting yourself in the friend zone is a no win situation for you. She doesn’t feel like you’re a friend because you weren’t being direct, and she doesn’t feel like you’re a potential date because you weren’t being direct. 😳
My advice is to decide whether you want to date her or not. If you do, then you should flirt with her and see if she’s responsive. If she is, invite her to do something on a date! If she isn’t responsive, move on and find someone who’s more interested. 😀
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