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okay well, this guy and i’ve been chatting on msn for few days, and he was really amazing. he msges nd chat wit me ALL the time and i spend ALL my time chatting with him and texting him. later, he asked me out on a date and i said okay. and ta date went great, except, he was texting this girl and he told her tat he was wit his highschool friend, which was total lie, and later he started to sendin her flirting texts, and told me tat he met her few days ago and tat she was his friend’s GF and that she messaged him saying tat she is gonna break up wit the friend. but i didnt mind as long as i was with him. At the end of the day, he told me he would like to c me again for another date soon time. i said okay. and chatted wit him and he again told me tat he would like to go on a date again wit me. i approved and the next day, he was online on msn, but never msgged (he always msges me all the time before) so i went up n msged him. and he seemed kinda busy, he nva been so busy. i understood something was wrong and he told me tat he spent ta night b4 chatting wit tat girl he was texting. and i left it alone n tld him ill tlk 2 him later. and he never texted me tat night tlked to me again. so i msg him ta next day, he didnt tlk to me as he used to tlk to me b4. and tat night he told me tat he was wit tat girl and just waiting for things to clear up for her. like her break up wit his friend. and tat he was sorry if he was hurting my feeling. i was devastated and havin hard time accepting he doesnt like me and he likes her. i am missing him so badly, since i spent more than half of my time tlkin to him, i feel very lonely without tlking to him. but i deleted him on facebook and msn and phone. but i still want to tlk to him. it seems like he doesn’t know what he wants and havin issue wit i cant tell my parents about him bcuz they are very strict about dating. bcuz he keeps on mentioning that her parents know about him and that she is intersted in sports. i don’t know what to do. i am left confused and alone. i am avoiding everyone around me for a man tat i’ve been tlkin to for few days. and i cant help it. what should i do? and yesterday he told me tat he was sorry and that he wants to be my friend still and likes me as a friend still. i dn’t wanna seem so desperate but it seems like i am obsessed with him. i can’t seem to think about anything else but him and her together. i feel hopeless. am i just over reacting? i don’t know, what should i do? how can i forget him and move on?? and he also live few blocks from my house, everytime i pass house which is like almost everyday, i feel anger and desperation, like a feel like i need to cry so bad. i’ve cried to sleep for ta past few days. am i goin crazy?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s hard to take rejection, but this guy is very clearly rejecting you and you’re probably someone who is used to getting what you want — only this time, you can’t! 😳 One of the things I write about in my book, Think & Date Like A Man, is that rejection is actually a gift! I know, it sounds crazy — rejection hurts, so how can it be a gift?? But the truth is that when someone rejects you they’re allowing you the opportunity to move on and not waste your valuable time on someone who’s not eligible to be your Mr. Right. I mean, imagine if this guy led you on, but still dated other women and never really liked you, but allowed you to give him your heart — that would be A LOT worse than if he flat out told you he’d rather just be friends.

So take this rejection and understand this guy isn’t Mr. Right, and that you’ve got the WHOLE WORLD in front of you to choose from! You can read Think & Date Like A Man, by downloading it here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. This book will give you a lot of dating guidance.

Also, try to keep busy and do things that don’t involve sitting around and moping. Get out there and play sports, or exercise, get a makeover or go shopping for something fabulous, make new friends or volunteer for people who need your support — and start looking for someone who wants you as much as you want him! 😀

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