I used to be in a relationship with this guy , and he was super smart, athletic, and funny. He also seem to really like me for me, because no matter how badly or awkwardly I make a mistake, he would just always laugh and give me a hug. The first few weeks were amazing, I really liked him and he really liked me. However, after a while, I’ve been feeling as though things were seriously awkward between the both of us. But he felt fine though, it was just me. I felt as though he was a really awkward person and so am I. I started trying to avoid him in the hallways, however, if I meet him directly I still talk to him very nicely. I’ve been talking to him less. However, he still liked me for me and still bought me stuff and all that. I felt very mean. And after 3 months, I ended up telling him nicely that I don’t think this would work, and we remained friends.This is not the first time, this had also happened to my second boyfriend (well not officially in a relationship, but we were more than friends)….I would feel amazing being in a relationship with someone I like, and then it would always end up being very awkward between us, and then kaboom, our relationship would just end like that. Do you think it is normal because he was just not the right one for me, or is it because I was being very pessimistic?? :/ And if this keeps on happen, does this mean I would never find myself a great last-longing relationship like how many people happily does? Is there a way to fix this? All I wanted is just someone I know that I could enjoy/share secrets/ and joke around with.
