[naomineeds]

Hi,
so this guy and i have been getting really close and all my friends thought we would end up together and would be teasing me about it. He made me feel like her really liked me and kinda really liked him to. He would tell me all this stuff that was really leading me on and we were already acting more of a couple. We would text a lot and on a school day trip he spent the whole time with me (he is in year 12 and i’m in year 11.) But the one week he slowly stopped talking to me and the next day he got a girl fried – which happens to be his best friends ex which we think is really bad. Now i feel really alone and i miss him as a friend. Is there a way to get over him or to try and get him back?
I guess he really mislead me to the point im feeling heart broken
Also now all over facebook, their tagging each other in really cute couple things and im seeing it all and it makes me really sad
thank you

[ConfusedCyndi]

Hi,

I completely understand what you’re going through! When I was in high school, the same thing happened to me. I really liked this guy and he completely led me on, he was also a year older than me. My advice to you is to try and move on, rather than try and get him back. I know it seems super hard now but I promise that things get heaps easier as time goes by. The best thing you can do is surround yourself with your friends and it’s ok to have a good cry about it. I also suggest ‘unfollowing’ him and this girl on Facebook so you don’t have to constantly see all the cutesy stuff they’re posting and it’ll also help the healing process too.

Chin up, I hope things will work out for you soon 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

What nice advice from ConfusedCyndi. 🙂 Life can be rough sometimes, and there are no guarantees. Sometimes people like you and sometimes they decide they like someone else better. It sounds like he chose this other young woman, and you’re disappointed. The best way to move forward is to flirt with him and try to win him over that way — but at the same time, play the field. Lots of times people tend to like you more when they see you’re desirable to other people. If he sees other guys liking you he may see you differently — and don’t forget, you may even attract a new guy by simply being open to someone new. 😉 I hope that helps.

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