Hello All,
Here is my story. I told my boyfriend that I needed some space and that I wanted some time to myself. He was okay with it and fully agreed that we needed some time apart. He even said that it was a good idea. We got back together after about 2 months and things were going great until I found out he trashed me to everyone on Facebook during my hiatus. Mind you, he and I do not have our relationship status on our profiles. I did not log on to Facebook during my hiatus from the relationship. He made his comments public and was calling me obscene names and demoralizing my womanhood and character. Not only that he was using foul language. One of his friends even threatened to find me and kick my butt. No one was privy to our relationship and what went on so I don’t know why anyone else would feel the need to comment and threaten me that way. My boyfriend’s intent was to hurt me and humiliate me publicly. 👿
I have known about this for a few days now and I am very angry and I am slowly pulling away from him after what he did to me. He doesn’t know that I know what he did. Some of my friends reported those hurtful comments and Facebook deleted them. I also happen to believe they disabled his account because he has not commented or made any posts in almost 2 weeks. His profile photo is gone as well, but he is still adding friends.
I just need to know what to say to this guy because part of the reason for me needing space was his controlling and possessive ways. I am afraid that if I end things, he will get right back on Facebook and bash me again if he is not banned, but I know in my heart that I need to end things.
