[jasonhand101]

Okay well me and my girlfriend split up about 2 months ago but I have missed her like crazy and want her back. Shes been seeing a friend of mine which makes me sick but i don’t think shes that into him as all my friends say and i can kind of tell also. I wrote her a letter saying this:

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Yes I know a letter but its the best way for me to get through to people sometimes. After our talk the other week at Onepoto Domain got me thinking to the reasons why we actually broke up. The two main parts I got out of it were that you didn’t feel the same and you are also a lot busier with your job and life. I fully agree on this and why we broke up, if it was the truth. I’m glad we did have the talk about it all and has made me a lot clearer and happier! I’m also getting on with my life and happy that I’m sorting out my career too 🙂
You’re probably wondering what I’m trying to get at. The truth is that I would love to give us another shot. I’m guessing you are shocked and didn’t see this coming but maybe you did. Ever since we split I have not gone a day without thinking about you. I’m not begging for you back but the 7 months I had with you were wonderful and a shame it didn’t go on longer. After being split for A while now, it has giving me time to think this through.
Yes I’m fully aware of what your response might be but thought Id give it one very last shot. Its fully understandable if you don’t want anything! A year ago today it was that I asked you via txt to make it official haha. I was so scared to do it face to face as you were the first girl that I really liked and cared for. I really did and still do. I miss you.
Have as much time to think about it as you want. I’m not here to pressure you but was just wanting to ask if we could give us another shot. If you wanted to meet and talk or just txt me or whatever and whenever is sweet
Hope you get better soon anyway Georg! 🙂

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And she face booked me saying..
I got your letter..I have also been thinking about a lot lately but I will just tell you I need to think more about what you’ve said and what I feel..but thanks so much for your letter 🙂 I enjoyed spending time with you on Monday night and I’m glad we spent that time at onepoto too 🙂

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This has given me so much hope but I’m not sure if i should have a lot of hope or what to do… I texted her last night asking if she wants to meet up and talk about it all but she said she just wants to give it time. So anyway….. what should I do? should i contact her anymore or just let her come to me? I see her every weekend when we go out to town as our whole group is friends but should i try keep my distance or keep chatting to her friendly face to face? I want her back so much and don’t want to loose this last chance i have at maybe making this work,
people have told me to let her think about it and leave her fully alone but scared my friend will take her fully away from me if i leave her alone…

When i see her on the weekends, it used to be awkward and we wouldn’t talk or anything but lately we have been getting along really well, like we chat and laugh together and its fine but scared its going to just make it turn to being “just friends” when i want more.. Just confused on what to do now..

She has also just started her new job on Friday, i asked how it went on the weekend and she said good and that was the end of that. I have kept my distance from then but do you think i should keep trying to talk to her or just fully let her be and let her come to me now? I’m just scared if i do that then she will end up thinking I’m not interested anymore and she will go out with my friend :/ please help and give advice! I need it asap 🙂 thanks heaps if you can tell me what to do!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You have to be careful not to put yourself in the friend zone because you’re afraid of losing her as a girlfriend. 😮 My advice is that you try asking her out on a date in a week or so. I know you’re afraid of rejection, but at some point, if you don’t face the fact that it’s a possibility, you’ll never know if you can get her back.

People live their entire lives with fear as a motivation, and it’s much better to understand the risk, and then take a smart one and possibly win — or lose and move on. 😉

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