[mistyrain123]

I fell in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend. He once told me that he likes her a lot, but he also likes me a lot. However, I don’t think he likes me enough to break up with his girlfriend and start something steady with me. At the same time, it might seem absurd, but I’m quite okay with him not breaking up with her, because I don’t think he is THE ONE person with whom I’m meant to be with. Our backgrounds are too different, and judging from his behaviour right now, I don’t think I could ever trust him to be 100% faithful to me.
HOWEVER, in spite of all this that I tell myself, I can’t stop thinking about him. I’m trying to forget him, but any small gesture from him comes close to shattering my resolutions. I’ve had a lot of good times with him, and I keep thinking about them, wishing there would be more. I think that at first, I just meant for him to stay a crush, but my feelings have progressed beyond that in spite of myself. I can’t turn back now. When he texts me, I try not to text him back, but it’s so very hard. I know that I need to get away from him, but at the same time I don’t want to. I don’t know what to do… I need someone to help me out with this.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you have a more specific question, I can help you better, but as it now stands, you’re dating a guy who has a girlfriend and who doesn’t want to break up with her for you. He’s being very clear with you. You can either stay in the relationship the way it is (and also expect him to be dating other women as well as you and his girlfriend) or move on if you don’t like the way things are.

This isn’t complicated at all. It’s simple. 😕

[b]Everyone likes to be liked! If the advice you found on AskApril.com was helpful “like” us on FB — and tell a friend!
[url][/url][/b]

[Member]

Posts