First of all, I’m sorry that you lost a baby…. ๐ Second of all, stop having unprotected sex. ๐ฎ If you had been pregnant with this man who isn’t very committed to you, you’d be asking me different questions with more serious implications. ๐
Thirds, you should never be the first one to say the L word. Especially if you’re not dating the guy. ๐ฏ It sounds like you have a friends with benefits situation, and you’ve tacitly agreed to that. This kind of relationship usually leads to confusion because women try to leverage sex into love. Men have sex because they can. So just because he’s sleeping with you, doesn’t mean he’s interested in a serious relationship with you. In fact, he’s made it clear by dumping you at dinner for another woman, that he’s not. ๐ณ
I understand why [b]AK_Lady[/b] suggested you get him to define the relationship — but I think he just did it for you! Men’s behavior is what you need to watch to figure out where you are in the relationship. His dumping you for someone else — right in front of you, after you told him you love him, is his way of telling you he’s not interested. Don’t waste any more time if you’re looking for a serious relationship. Move on, and find someone who wants what you want. If having a serious relationship is a priority for you, then you get to behave as if it is…. or if it isn’t. You have the power here, but if you don’t use it, you lose it. ๐
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