About a month ago, I started messaging a guy that I’ve known for quite a number of years. He’s a mutual friend, and we just kind of decided that we’d give things a try. He asked me out to dinner, and I accepted. When the day came, he blew me off because he had work plans, and we spoke about arranging another time. Time passed, and it worked out that we hung out a few weeks afterwards at his place. We watched TV and talked, and we kissed but he didn’t try anything else with me, which I thought was great (for a 22 year old guy). That night went really well, and we got along perfectly. About three weeks went by of trying to make plans and failing, and we hung out this past Saturday night. I stayed over, and we cuddled and kissed but no sex once again, and we spoke for hours. Since Saturday, he hasn’t messaged me nearly as much as he did before. He’s short with me over text messages, and sometimes doesn’t answer me. He has always blamed this on being busy, he works and goes to university, plays hockey and coaches high school hockey. I feel that he’s put in too much effort to want just a booty call, and I have told him that I didn’t just want sex. But now, he’s changed his behaviour and I am wondering what I should do. I keep going back to him, and I’m looking for your opinion on what he’s thinking. All I know about him in the past is that he dated a girl upwards of three years, and has been single for about one. Any help would be great.
