Hi i work closesly with a man who is in relationship, he is not married, but the have been toghter for more than 12 year and have a child, home, friends and so on. He is a great guy we are like soul mates, well when I first met him i was in a relationship with a man who was also once married but left his wife for me, he was a little crazy and so i took my chld and left, i was married when i met this married man. Anyway this coworker has been great to talk to and we get along so well, at a xma party after i left the guy i was with i had a little to much to drink and flirted with him openly his wife was upset and told me so. i continued to flirt with this man for a ffew years and work closely with him and then i knew he was in love me, he struggled with leaving his wife and child however did, went back and then left again, since he left the first time we have been meeting for short periods of time or he leaves the house to call me, well he has left now for about 6 months and now i notice he is spending more time at her house with their son saying he is confused and not sure what he wants, and i cannot wait any longer, i gave him an ultimatum to either tell her or i would. he called her and told her he told me he has feelings for me and now she wants him gone for good, she suspected all along but her family is the most importatnt to her. question is do you think it wil work for us, we have a strong personal bond?/
