[kaydee88]

Hi April,

I’m having a few difficulties with my current situation right now. Here’s the thing, a week ago while I was in one special class in the university, I saw this really cute guy whom I guessed was an athlete coz he was really tall and kinda bulky. It was really unexpected because I noticed him checking me out but I didn’t want to assume right away so I just threw a few glances back at him just to let him know I am interested too. Lunch came and he stood right beside me while we were lining up to get some food in the cafeteria and he went like “Hey classmate, can I line up with you?” so I agreed then we talked and separated when we got the food to attend to our friends.

When we came back to class, we already talked about some stuff and I asked him if he plays any sport and said he was a tennis player. A few hours later, we were grouped together for an activity which gave us more time to get to know a little bit about each other. I joked about his sport and challenged him to tell me one thing worth bragging about in his career and he hinted that he was like the number one in that field. He told me to google him if I still don’t believe him and HE HANDED ME OVER HIS CELLPHONE and asked for my number and asked me to text him as soon as I find out something interesting about him on google. So because I was too excited, I googled his name as soon as I got home and found out that he was indeed a tennis superstar and he is currently ranked number 1 in our country (Philippines).

Anyway, I texted him and he called me up right away and we talked a little bit because I wasn’t home that time. A few minutes after we hung up, he texted me right away and we continued texting until we fell asleep. The next day, I texted him to wish him luck for his competition in Thailand and he prolonged our texting session until we fell asleep again. Then the next morning, before his flight, I texted him again to wish him a safe trip. He said “Thank you, take care always.”

With all those things considered, did I come up too desperate or clingy? Is he interested in me? Will he ever let me know when he comes back (which I know is on Sunday and I already miss him)? Are we going to have a chance for a relationship?

I am really head over heels for this guy even before he told me about his “superstar” status. I want us to be able to go out and have a date when he gets back but I don’t know how we can do that. I forced myself to resist the temptation to add him up on facebook because I don’t wanna look very desperate and I don’t want him to think that I’m just “one-of-the-girls” who only wants to be a part of his fame. Please tell me what to do. Thank you so much!

-Kaydee (18 years old)

[Ask April Masini]

He definitely likes you, and you were not too desperate or clingy. 😉 I can’t tell you if he’s going to call you when he gets back or if you’re going to have a relationship because neither you or I have enough information about him since you haven’t even dated him once yet! 😆

Until he comes back Sunday, read my book, Think & Date Like A Man, written for women — [i]WHO WANT TO GET THE GUY — AND KEEP HIM! [/i] 😎 That means you! Here’s the link to download it now and read it between now and Sunday (it’s not too long and an easy read): [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. This book will give you all the tips and advice you need to make sure that if he is Mr. Right, you’ll know how to be his Ms. Right.

Let me know what you think and how it goes.

And join me on Facebook — here’s that link: [url][/url]. 🙂

[kaydee88]

Hi April,

I am currently reading the book you suggested and it really goes down deep inside. It’s kinda hard to swallow everything though. Haha 😆 Anyway, you mentioned that we (girls) shouldn’t be the one to call first so does that mean that when he gets back on Sunday I shouldn’t text or call him and just wait for him to make the first move? Gah, this is really hard. 😆

[Ask April Masini]

I’m SO GLAD you got Think & Date Like A Man — and that it’s helping you — even if it is a LOT of information!! Yes, yes, yes — you’re right. You should not call or text him first when he returns this weekend. But when he does call — be your most enchanting self so he can’t wait to see you!! 😎

And I can’t wait to see you on Facebook!! 😆 Join me at this link: [url][/url]. 🙂

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