[Danielle0623]

I just met a guy 2 weeks ago. He is a great guy. He’s great all around, background, family, job, money, etc. We’ve been going on dates and he’s a very nice gentleman and treats me very well. He asked me to go with him Christmas shopping after the first week of meeting him and he surprised me with a Coach purse that he bought for me. I thought it was a little much for only knowing him a week but he insisted that I accept it. I also met his parents and they are nice. He talks alot about me to his friends and family. HOWEVER.. I still don’t feel an intimate/physical attraction with him. He’s not a bad looking guy. But I just don’t know if I feel that connection with him yet. I like him alot because of his personality and how generous and good he is. But I feel that the intimate connection is just not there. We’ve kissed a few times and it’s not that he’s a bad kisser or anything, but I just didn’t feel that feeling you get when you’re “into” someone. I kinda didn’t want to kiss him the other night. I don’t know what to do because I feel bad in a way. He really likes me and he is a “good package deal”. But I don’t want to feel like im just settling or like i’m trying to force those feelings. Do feelings grow? I’m just not sure if I should continue to try and see if feelings develop…or if I should back down and not see him anymore. PLEASE HELP!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Yes, feelings do grow. Give it a few more dates and a little more time, and see if you find yourself more attracted to him than you are now. Physical attraction is definitely important, but many times, it comes later. If he’s got a lot of good qualities, then two weeks isn’t enough time to decide he’s not the one.

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