I just found out that my “X” fiance has been cheating on me & this new reality has left me heartbroken. This woman has went above and beyond to prove they have been initmate. She’s told me they have been on & off for 2 years & she sees him whenever she wants (this would include in MY home while I was out of town). He has denied their involvement beyond being friends. I asked him to be honest with me and to tell me everything, needless to say that he hasnt. I find myself asking him questions about the “fling” and his responses just don’t add up. Im not sure if he doesn’t respect me enough to tell me the truth or if he’s afraid of admitting the truth. He has repeatedly apologized for hurting me, however, he does not and will not admit to the “fling” which is something I NEED him to do. He has confided ALOT of very intimate and personal details with this woman. She knows seemingly EVERYTHING about me but when I ask questions about her, there’s hestitation on his end and basically very little being said. Am I foolish for wanting or trying to work through this OR is this a situation that shouldnt/doesnt deserve a second chance? He thinks we should go to couples counseling /premarital counseling etc……but I’m not sure if this would be helpful or not at this point.
~Broken hearted
