I’ve been hooking up with an old friend for the last couple of months. In the years that I’ve known him, he has never had a girlfriend. He has always been the one night stand kind of guy. When we first started hooking up, he made me feel special. He would kiss me and hold my hand. He even took me and my daughter trick or treating. When I asked him if he liked me, he pretty much told me he wont say yes, but he wont say no either. Then the next day, he told me we shouldn’t talk anymore. Sure enough, two days later we run into each other. And when he saw me, he got excited, came home with me, and it started all over again. He would come by at least once a week. The kissing slowed down and we don’t walk down the street hand in hand, but he always wants me to snuggle up to him when we watch movies and he tells me that he hasn’t been this way with a girl since his last girlfriend almost ten years ago. And we would have these romantic moments that I felt had to mean something to him just as much as me. But it seems like whenever I bring up anything to do with his feelings for me, he stops talking to me. He always comes back once he gets sometime alone but he makes me so confused. He introduced me to his mom. He is so sweet to my daughter, even bought her a little toy for Christmas. I feel like if I didn’t mean anything to him, he wouldn’t do these kinds of things. But if I ask him about how he feels, he gets uncomfortable and wont admit to anything. Does he have feelings for me and what should I do??? I like him so much. I just hate not knowing!
