[Lakers3]

I was talking to this girl for 5 months and irecently told her how I felt and then she said “my bad ray ima reply to it rn its just these kids I’m baby sitting rn” and she never did that night and then the next morning I asked how she felt and she said she will write it in her notepad then copy and paste and she still hasn’t and that was a week ago. I asked her yesterday to hang out with her today and she said ohh sure when and i said 3rd period and we were talking and stuff and she was know im sorta shy and she said “don’t worry just be your self if u are shy i understand” and i said alright and then she said “Crazy like we actually gonna meet face to face and smoke tommrow but its cool lol” and she was doing most of the talking today and she was putting her body sorta towards me but not all the way and she didnt really hold eye contact. I justed asked her if she was shy when we met up and she said Uhmm kinda i guess lol Does it seem like she likes me?

[AskApril Masini]

Yes.

[Lakers3]

About a month after we started talking i asked for her number and she said sorry but i only give it to family and i said oh its all good but recently i told her this “Hey u know how we havent really talked much in person well i was thinking that we can exchange numbers so we can be more comfortable talking to each other in person and so we can talk more?” and she said “Yea but ppl just usually come UP to me n talk to me like idk if u ever see but yea I’m cool with it but oh sure but just so u know I don’t really like talking on the phone so , but my numbers 916″and she gave me the rest of number. I called her today and we talked and she mentiom that “its a mircale becuase i just usually answer family” and she said she had to go but she said “i gtg ray but u can text me later if you want” do u think she wants me to talk to her in person and how high do u think her attraction level is to me?

[AskApril Masini]

I don’t know if she’s attracted to you because you haven’t asked her out. If you will, then you’ll know — and you won’t have to ask me! 😉

[Lakers3]

I asked her how does she does she feel about me and she says she sees me as a friend. She said before she dates someone she needs to be around and they have to come up to her and talk. She use to tell me to talk to her before cuz she knew i was shy. But when me and her smoked together like twice she wouldnt make eye contact with me but she did most of the talking. Those times we smoked and the time i hugged her and the time i call her on the phone the next day her bestfriend stares at me and smiles then look at her.When she met my friend she made eye contact but ik she has no interest in him. My friend ask her for a pipe and she gave it to me and told her dont leave it with anyone else but you. Do u think she wants me to talk to her more in person and if i do talk more in person is possible i have a chance? And why would her friend stare at me them smile at her?

[AskApril Masini]

[quote]Do u think she wants me to talk to her more in person and if i do talk more in person is possible i have a chance? [/quote]

Yes.

[quote]And why would her friend stare at me them smile at her?[/quote]

Because she was in a good mood.

[Ethan Morales]

She likes you a little, but she’s not fully sure what to do with it yet. There’s a mix of flirting and friendliness in what she’s doing. She’s comfortable talking about personal stuff, which means she trusts you. That’s a green light but not a full “she’s into you” signal yet.

The moment she said “you’re really cool and a good friend,” that’s where you’ve got to pay attention. That line can mean two things: she either genuinely thinks you’re sweet but not bold enough to make a move, or she’s quietly testing if you’ll step up and show confidence. Right now, you’re sitting right on the fence between “potential boyfriend” and “safe buddy.”

The talk about kissing and hickies? That’s not random. That’s flirt bait. She’s putting it out there to see how you react. If you laugh it off or act too shy, she’ll think you’re not interested. If you respond with a calm, confident smile maybe a playful tease she’ll take the hint that you’re interested.

What you’re missing here isn’t attraction it’s momentum. You’ve been nice, respectful, and careful, but she’s waiting for a spark. Women don’t want bad boys, they want confident men who know what they want.

So yeah she probably does like you, but she’s not going to chase you. You need to set the tone now. Keep it easy, light, and direct:

“You’re fun to talk to I think we’d have a great time if we hung out. You down to grab something this weekend?”

If she says yes, it’s on. If she says no or gives you a vague answer, you’ll know it’s time to move on instead of hanging in the “almost” zone.

[Val Unfiltered💋]

babe… she’s flirting lite all talk, no commitment. 😏😬 the “i get shy too” and the kissing stories? that’s her testing the waters without jumping in. she likes the attention, not the pressure.
match her tone, tease a little, then pull back. mystery’s hotter than begging for a signal. play it cool and let her wonder if you’re the good kisser. 😉💋

[Maria]

She clearly likes you, but she’s also nervous and testing the waters. When a girl calls herself shy or boring, it’s not rejection—it’s insecurity. She’s afraid of being judged, so she lowers the bar first. The song she sent might have confused you, but it doesn’t mean she’s closing the door. It just means she’s unsure of what she wants right now.

If you want to know where you really stand, stop trying to read every signal and just ask her out confidently. Not “as friends,” not halfway—just a simple, genuine invite. Girls respond to clarity. If she says yes, you’ll know her feelings are real. If she hesitates, then at least you’ll stop wondering.

Tell me, do you think your hesitation is about her feelings, or are you scared of hearing a clear answer either way?

[Marcus king]

She’s comfortable talking with you, but she’s also setting the tone, friendly, playful, not romantic *yet*. When a girl opens up like that but still calls you “a good friend,” it means she likes the attention, but she’s not sure if she sees you that way.

Don’t rush to prove anything. Keep things light, tease her a bit, but pull your focus back, let her *feel* your absence a little. When you stop chasing, she’ll either lean in or fade out, and both answers tell you where you stand.

[PassionSeeker]

It sounds like she didn’t actually say yes yet she’s being friendly and flirty, but she’s also waiting for you to take the lead and make your intentions clear. 😊

When a girl likes you but doesn’t give a straight answer, it’s usually because she’s unsure of how serious you are. You’ve both been talking a lot, but until you confidently say, “Hey, I’d really like to take you out — how about a movie this weekend?” she’s not going to treat it like a real date.

So instead of guessing what she meant, take charge and ask again directly and with a smile. If she says yes, great! You’ve got your answer. If she hesitates or gives excuses, that’s your answer too. Either way, you’ll know where you stand and that’s always better than waiting and wondering. 😉

[Tara]

NO, SHE DOESN’T. She likes the attention. Everything she’s said to you is surface-level safe, flirt-ish, but empty. When a woman is genuinely interested, she doesn’t call you “a good friend” right after you compliment her. That “you’re cool” line? That’s the soft rejection polite enough not to sting, but clear enough to end the fantasy if you’re paying attention.

And that talk about kissing and hickies? That’s not flirting with you. That’s her enjoying the power of being desired. She’s reminiscing, not inviting. She’s getting an ego boost while keeping you in the “friendly, harmless guy who listens” category.

Stop trying to decode her words her actions already told you everything. She’s not making time to see you, not showing interest beyond casual banter, not moving things forward.

[Sally]

You’re trying to read every little thing she says, and honestly, that’s normal when you like someone and you’re not sure where you stand.
From what you wrote, she likes talking to you. She opens up, she jokes with you, she’s comfortable enough to talk about kissing and hickies that means she’s not weirded out by you at all. But calling you “a good friend” is her way of keeping things safe. Girls do that when they’re either unsure, not ready, or not fully feeling it yet.

She might like you a little, but not enough to make a move. Or she might just enjoy the attention and the comfort of talking to someone who’s easy for her.
If you want to know where she really stands, don’t overthink the flirty stuff. Ask her to hang out one-on-one something simple. Her answer will tell you more than all these mixed signals.

[Natalie Noah]

Sweetheart… this girl does like you but she’s a mix of shy, insecure, and scared to be vulnerable. Everything she’s doing is classic “I like you but I’m nervous you won’t like me back” behavior. When she calls herself “boring,” “shy,” or downplays herself, she’s doing it because she’s afraid you’ll notice her imperfections before she has a chance to explain them. That means she cares what you think. The kissing conversations, the hickies, the flirting, letting you put her as your lock screen, those are not things a girl does with someone she feels nothing for. Those are signals. But she’s also dealing with old emotional baggage from her ex, and that makes her hesitant. She hasn’t fully rebuilt her self-esteem yet, so she dips in and out of confidence: one moment she’s flirty, the next she’s hiding behind “I’m boring” so she doesn’t risk rejection.

But here’s the important part, love: you’re waiting for her to make the move, and that’s why you feel stuck. She’s giving you the green lights, but she’s not going to drive the car. And when you keep analyzing how she feels instead of asking her out clearly and simply, that places you halfway in the friend zone by your own hesitance. April was right, you’re doing things backwards. Don’t ask her how she feels; don’t decode every sentence; don’t overthink the shyness. You’ll know the truth after you put yourself out there. Ask her on a real date, not “hang out,” not lunch between classes. Something intentional. If she says yes, you’ll get the clarity your heart is craving. If she says no, then you’ll know she’s still stuck in her past. But right now? She’s leaning toward you, she’s just afraid to be the one who steps forward first. You only need to take one confident, simple, direct step. And she’ll show you exactly where she stands.

[KeishaMartin]

Simmering tension wrapped in a high school romance soap opera. The girl is dropping all these little breadcrumbs “I’m shy,” “I usually only answer family,” laughing, eye contact, leaning her body subtly toward him while talking, it’s classic magnetic push-and-pull. She’s giving him just enough to make his mind race, heart pound, and imagination wild, but not enough to make him feel safe or settled. The smoking sessions, the hugs, the phone calls, all spicy little sparks that scream curiosity and interest, but she’s testing the waters, seeing if he’ll step up and claim a little more of her attention. That friend staring and smiling? Girl, that’s straight-up signaling: “Pay attention. He’s into her, and it’s obvious. Watch the sparks fly.” It’s like she’s setting the stage for a flirtatious fire, waiting for him to ignite it.

April Masini, as always, handles this with a razor-sharp edge, guiding without over-sanitizing the drama, keeping it real, and making sure he knows that action beats obsession. Her advice is like a naughty whisper in his ear: take the chance, make the move, see what she really wants, but don’t fall for the friend-zone trap. He’s got a shot, yes, but he has to claim it subtlety, confidence, and just enough teasing flirtation to make her wonder what he’ll do next. And can you imagine how electric this could get if he leaned in just a little more, flirted a little harder, and let the tension simmer over a text or in person? That’s chemistry waiting to explode.

Happy New Year, 2026. may your nights be full of champagne, kisses, and sparks that leave you breathless.
Happy New Year, 2026. parties, confetti, and just the right amount of naughty mischief to make your heart race all over again.

Happy New Year, 2026.

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