[Magpies11]

Have hooked up with girl multiple times, pretty much each time I’ve been out at a club or party and she’s been there. Only been on one date with her though. First night I hooked up with her sex was involved (like one night stand) next day she gave me her number (we have mutual friends) and we started taking constantly this was like 6months ago since then we have hooked up numerous tomes and one of the times she asked me to sleep the night with her spooning and kissing no sex. Been told by numerous people that she’s a flirt when she goes out and that I should be careful. Ended up heading catching up with her the other week when she was out with her friends as she had a leaving party for overseas for one month. At the end of the night was waiting for my lift home she had came up gave me kiss and hug and said she will see me when she gets back. I got a text from her later that night saying that she hopes I got home safe. I replied to her I did, asked of she got home safe too… No reply.. Didn’t think much of it.. The next day I sent her a text saying that I hope she has a nice holiday.. No reply again.. She messaged me wishing me a happy birthday. I replied saying thanks and for her to have a safe flight and again she didn’t reply..
She will be back in three weeks I also want to tell her that I am into her. Do I just go out and tell her that I like her or listen to the other people that I shouldn’t go with her? Does she like me or is she just playing me?

People always tell me to go with my gut but I’ve done that in the past and been hurt multiple times. Has anyone gone through a situation like this, If so please help!!

[jessi_girl800]

i think you should go for it. i mean regardless of what people say it doesnt matter what they think. your into her so prove it. she may be playing you but she could also be very nice. you never know unless you try. always remember she doesnt deserve to pay for something other girls put u thru so follow your instincts.

[Missladyt_17]

Go for what? No way, this girl is loose and although she may spend time with you, believe me it will not only be you. Please do not reveal your feelings because she will use it as power over you. Your time together has been rather iffy at most. I am not saying that you should not try to date her, but I would not reveal my feelings until she shows that she wants to be with you and only you. Listen to what your friends have told you. BE CAREFUL!!!!

Just because you reveal your feelings to this young lady means that she will come running to you, sometimes it pushes people away. Please think long and hard before you do this. She does not seem to want to be in a relationship, but she does want to keep you on a string and I see you are still dangling on that string. Do not be afraid to date other women, you may be surprised.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

When you have sex with someone too quickly, it’s hard to get to know them — and it’s also understandable that they’re doing what they did with you — with others. So keep that in mind when you move further. Asking someone out on a date always runs the risk of rejection, but if you want to date her and get to know her further, then that’s what I suggest — but remember that she’s the type of person who hooks up quickly and easily, so she’s probably doing so with other men, too. If you do proceed, just know who you’re dealing with so you can make smart decisions for yourself. 😉

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