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Doesnt want a GF till He gets his license

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    MonicaP
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    This guy I have been seeing on and off for about a year now, got his license suspended (DUI) and gets it back in March. We have been more serious these past couple of months than we ever have, emotionally and physically. Hes very sweet when he comes over, shows a lot of affection, calls me beautiful, tells me he how amazing I am, all that good stuff. When hes gone though, it seems like I am talking to a different person. He is always very nice to me, he doesnt have a mean bone in his body, but he is so confusing. His ex gf of 3 years cheated on him, with a friend of his. Is he just afraid of being hurt again? Am I not good enough? Please help 🙁

    #20797

    How old are you both? How long ago did he break up with his three year ex-girlfriend?

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    MonicaP
    Member #117,800

    I am 22, he is 23. They broke up almost 2 years ago, maybe longer. I feel like I am a late night booty call, but hes never really been the type for that.

    #20908

    I don’t know if he’s afraid of getting hurt or not, because he’s not writing me, you are — but even if he is, his behavior is his behavior, and that’s what we have to go off of. And I don’t think his behavior has anything at all with you’re not being good enough (for what? ).

    The problem you’re having is that this guy isn’t really that interested in you as a girlfriend. Your instinct that you’re a booty call to him, is a good one. When a man wants you to be his, he’s going to do everything in his power to make sure you, and the world, know that you’re his girlfriend. This guy isn’t doing that, and my advice is for you to move on. You’ve started making excuses for his behavior, and then you question his motives. The question you should be asking is why [i]you’re[/i] dating someone for a year who’s only into you off and on. 😕

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