I don’t know if he’s afraid of getting hurt or not, because he’s not writing me, you are — but even if he is, his behavior is his behavior, and that’s what we have to go off of. And I don’t think his behavior has anything at all with you’re not being good enough (for what? ❓ ).
The problem you’re having is that this guy isn’t really that interested in you as a girlfriend. Your instinct that you’re a booty call to him, is a good one. When a man wants you to be his, he’s going to do everything in his power to make sure you, and the world, know that you’re his girlfriend. This guy isn’t doing that, and my advice is for you to move on. You’ve started making excuses for his behavior, and then you question his motives. The question you should be asking is why [i]you’re[/i] dating someone for a year who’s only into you off and on. 😕
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