[Muse31]

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and btw I’m 15 and a sophomore, and he broke up with me last Thursday… Everything was fine he was treating me nice and everything but that week he was different something was wrong with him I had a feeling that something was wrong with him and when I asked him he said nothing that he’s just tired from football practices and probably stuff at home so I said alrite are you sure and he said yeah so I thought okay then maybe he’s just tired then. But the whole week he was just weird like he wouldn’t talk that much, he wouldn’t hug me or kiss me like he always does for affection and he didn’t held my hand often but he did a few times. He was fine on the day he broke up with me at school but then when I got home from conditioning for basketball I was txting him and then he said he had to tell me something and I said what and he said it doesn’t feel right and that it wasn’t the same anymore and we should be better of friends through a Txt! A Txt! Of course I was upset that the fact that he’d doing that out of no where but the thing that hurt the most was that he did it in a txt not in front of me… the next day he ignored me nd all of my friends and his friends found out and they were all on my side because what he did was wrong. I hated how he ignored me like that because of his immaturity… But I showed that I was okay with it to be strong and now he just stares at me and everywhere I go.. Something is up and he’s not telling me the whole story why… I think it was family probs and he would usually tell me everything but this time he didn’t… I miss him but what he did was wrong though… But today he said hi to me a gave me a playful shove. What does that mean??? Plz I miss his smile and his laugh he laughed and talked more this year because of me and he’s not smiling as often. I want my ex back but how??? I want to show him that no matter what I’ll be there for him and that I don’t hate him… What should I do? Should I take him back or not? Am I’m making a mistake? Is he not the one? He told me I was his girl of his dreams and that I make hi so happy when I’m with him and same with me, He’s SO sweet:/ Please Tell me what I should do…

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I know you were upset about the text breakup — and yes, it was rude and inappropriate — but it should make you feel better about the break up because this is someone who didn’t even have the courage to break up with you face to face. 😕 He’s either immature and was afraid to face you, or rude and didn’t care about facing you — both not signs of a Mr. Right. 😳

However, it sounds like he is still interested in you — and relieved that the breakup is over now. He may be trying to smooth things over and just be friends with you, without any interest in getting back together, or he may regret breaking up with you and will eventually try to get back together. Either way, it sounds, from what you’ve written, that his decision to break up with you had to do with things going on in his life, and that maybe he decided that the two of you just weren’t a good match for him. So my advice to you is to go on with your life, but don’t fall into the trap of thinking he’s getting back together with you because he may not, and you may get hurt again. Just live well, and frankly, if he sees you moving on, whether or not he decides he wants you back, you’re going to be more attractive to him if you don’t need him. 😉

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[Muse31]

Thx So Much For The Advice, I Think I’m Going To Think Of It Like That:)

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome. 😀

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