I have been knowing this guy for going on two years. He has always flirted with me but he worked with me so I didn’t want to pursue a relationship with him. He has fooled around with a lot of girls but hasn’t dated any of them which is odd to me.
Early this year, he ended up confessing his feelings for me. He ran into me one night and was like I love you but I didn’t know if it was in the heat of the moment. He basically begged me to give him a chance. Later on, he told me that he really liked me but he felt like I didn’t like him as much as he liked me. But I was scared of him hurting me so I told him I liked him but I didn’t tell him that I was actually falling for me. He texted me constantly for like the first two weeks and he came over one night but he wanted to be all touchy and I’m not comfortable with that so it may have come off as if I didn’t like him. The truth is that I’m a virgin and didn’t know how to tell him.
Months later he messaged me asking if I wanted him, in terms of being in a relationship. I said that I never once said that I didn’t want him. But when I asked him how he felt, he didn’t respond. We have since stopped texting each other on a regular but we both act nothing happened when we see each other in person and act like were the best of friends. He still fools around with other girls and I don’t want to hold out hope that he will want a relationship with me. Two days ago, he told me that we needed to talk but has yet to contact me. I don’t know what to do about this situation. If I move on, I must tell him how I feel but I’m just confused. Thanks in advance.
