Hi april,
Not to long ago I wrote you with some relationship problems. I found my bf on a social network looking for other campionship. Because I wasn’t home much at all and wasn’t giving him the attention he wanted. I took ur advice things got better for a few weeks and than got worse again. He contiued to push me away, never communicated with me, would not do the things he said he would to make our relationship work, and he even stopped having sex with me. At this point I was home everyday with him, always fighting to make us work. Well eventually I got tired of it and broke up with him. We continued to live together though until he told me he needed space from me and that I should move out until we got our new house a few months down the road and than we will take our relationship from there. So I moved out, and about 3 weeks later I found out he was seeing another girl. He lied to me about her and anything concerning her of course. I know this because this girl and I have talked. Soon after I started dating just to help keep my ex off my mind. He found out about it from my family and got angry. Since than he broke up with this other girl and has expressed that he misses me and still loves me and we’ve even discussed making things work but he still continues to talk to this other girl still. He’s told her he loves her and that even though they are not together he isn’t going anywhere, yet he tells me he’s going to marry me someday. Both of us girls want to be with him. I have 2 kids with him. He is very close to my sister and talks about me to her all the time. She tells me he is in love with me and we will be together again. But I’m just not sure. I don’t understand his actions. If he wanted to be with me why won’t he just be with me and only me?But anywho I’m very confused about whether I should keep having hopes he will come around and be with me or just completly lose hope and start the process of moving on. Any advice for me?
