[Anonymous]

i have been with my boyfriend for 7months now and at first it was amazing, he made me feel special and loved and like he really wanted me. he is my first sexual partner although i am not his and during the start of our relationship he could not keep his hands off me! we had sex regulary and he used to always compliment me. recently he doesnt seem to be interested at all , he no longer pays me any compliments at all and when it comes to sex well there isint any! i only see him around three times a week because of work and other things but we have always made it work, i feel like im in a totally different relationship! 🙁 and i cant understand how a man who showed me so much attention could suddenly loose interest. i have never been confident with the way i look but he used to reasure me that he loved it now he just doesnt show me any attention, if i want him in a sexual way i have to litterally beg! only to be regected because hes “not in the mood” or hes “tierd” … he is only 22 and he used to have a really high sex drive! it just makes me feel regected and unloved, could he be cheating on me? because he muct be getting it from somewhere!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s unusual for a 22 year old man to lose interest so dramatically in just seven months time, normally. Your begging 😯 for sex is not very sexy or appealing, so stop doing that. Instead, give him a reason to want to take you to bed. 😎 Make sure you have sexy lingerie, are well groomed (waxing or other forms of hair removal shouldn’t be a hobby), and know how to set the scene for seduction. I’ve written a book called Romantic Date Ideas [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url] that gives you a blue print for getting the sizzle back in your bedroom. Buy it (it’s only $8.99), read it, and use it.

In addition take inventory of yourself and see if anything has changed in your life that would contribute to his pulling away.

I hope this helps. Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter. 😀

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