First love and a first lover are very important. They’re emotional and you don’t get another first, so there’s a lot of emphasis placed on these “firsts”. Because you’re both young and don’t have a lot of experience, there’s even more emphasis and heart in these relationships.
No relationship comes with insurance, and I don’t know if this will be forever for you. Some lifelong relationships do start out as yours is. Most don’t. But you get to write your own story with this young man. As for your question about him getting bored….. I’m not sure he ever will get bored. It really depends on who he is and who you are. Some people get bored all the time and have serial relationships because they’re never content. Other people are easily content with one person — even a person they met as a first love in their teenage years.
My advice is to enjoy the relationship and see where it goes. Try to balance enjoying today with taking care of yourself and your heart since you’ve been brave enough to put yourself in love. Love is wonderful, but it comes with risks. Much better to have loved — even if it means you lose — than never to have loved at all. 😉
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