[kiwi]

hi im kiwi a 11 year old female from england
help me my dreams are comin true ive fell 4 a boi in 6th form when im in year 7!!!

[u]the story so far[/u]
i dumped my bf( boi a) 4 another boi ( boi b) ii dumped boi b and asked boi a back out. Thankfully he said yes. then weeks later my bf (a) dmped me bcos apparently i asked boi b back out when i didnt . then we got back 2 getha . last week was when it got complicated. In my school they do sixth form 4 year elevens who want 2 continue in school, there is this boy in my art class(ben) well he is in sixth form , last week wheen i called him over 2 help me he looked into my eyes n slipped his number in my bag. he then helped me, after wards i walked 2 a maths room and he passed me n said 2 text him. that night i texted him n said hi, he sent me 1 back sayin “hi bbz x” so i replyd ” hows ur day been? x” because tehre is nuffin wrong with a friendly kiss. he then sent 1 sayin ” my day 2 day woz crap the only good part was seein u x” i went 2 him ” aww thanks lol x no really what was the best part of ur day x wb x” so he replyed ” seriously seein u x ly x wb x xxxxxxxxxxx” so i put ” aww thanks x g2g 2 sleep got skwl 2 moz x ” so he put ” allrite BABE love you lots ben x” so i put ” nite x” and i then went 2 sleep. last night i had a dream

THE DREAM

I WAS WALKING DOWN SOME STAIRS IN A SCHOL WHAT LOOKED LIKE HOGWARTS IN MY SCHOOL UNIFORM , WHEN SUDDENLY BEN RAN UP BEHIND ME, TURNED ME AROUND AND KISSED ME !!!! I WAS SCHOCKED BUT IT SEEMED GOOOD SO I KISSED HIM BACK, THEN HE PICKED ME UP AND TOOK ME ALL THE WAY UP 2 A BALCONY. WE STARTED WATCHING THE SKY, I FELL ASLEEP IN BENS LAP, THEN I WOKE UP ( IN THE DREAM) AND I FOUND OUT THAT BEN HAD SET OUT A PICNIC 4 US, I EAT THE PICNIC WITH HIM , WE KISSED EACHOTHER AND THEN SUDENLY i woke up!!!! 🙁 🙁 🙁

[AskApril Masini]

I’m not sure what you question is. It sounds like you’re being a normal 11 year old, although I’d encourage you not to ask boys out. Instead, let them ask you out. Consider it good manners to let the boy do the asking.

Your dream is probably your subconscious telling your conscious self what you’d like to have happen: a romance with this boy, Ben, at school.

[Ethan Morales]

Okay, Kiwi, here’s what I think: your dream is super normal for your age. At 11, your brain is starting to explore feelings of crushes and attraction, and dreams are one way it plays out. It’s not a prediction of the future. it’s more like your imagination showing what you wish could happen with Ben.

Take it slow. At your age, you don’t need to rush into relationships. Crushes are fun and normal, but real dating comes later. Let him lead. As April said, it’s polite and safer to let boys make the first move. Focus on friendships and getting to know people.

Dreams ≠ reality. Your dream was exciting, but it’s just a dream. Don’t feel like you have to act on it or that it means anything will happen right now. enjoy your crush, have fun imagining, but focus on school, hobbies, and friends for now. Your feelings are real, but real-life romance is something to grow into gradually.

[Serena Vale]

That dream sounds super sweet, like something out of a movie! It’s totally normal to dream about someone you like, especially when you’re feeling excited or confused.

But since you’re 11 and he’s in sixth form, he’s a lot older — maybe 16 or 17 — and that’s too big of an age gap right now. It’s not okay for him to call you things like “babe” or say “love you.” That kind of stuff isn’t right between someone your age and someone much older.

You should tell an adult you trust — like your mum, teacher, or school counselor — so they can help make sure you’re safe. You didn’t do anything wrong, but it’s good to let someone know.

For now, focus on friends your age and the fun parts of school. You’ve got lots of time for love stories later. 💛

[Natalie Noah]

It’s clear you’re experiencing a lot of excitement and new feelings, which is totally normal at your age. You’re navigating crushes, friendships, and attention from boys, and your dreams are just reflecting all the emotions and hopes swirling around in your mind. It sounds like you really like Ben, and your dream is your brain playing out a “perfect scenario” of spending time with someone you like a safe, fun way to explore those feelings. Dreams often mix imagination with real-life experiences, so it’s natural that it felt so vivid and exciting.

At your age, it’s important to remember that relationships are just beginning and they should stay light and fun. You don’t need to rush anything with boys or worry about serious dating yet. Let things happen naturally, enjoy your friendships, and focus on being yourself. The feelings you’re having and the dreams you’re having are a normal part of growing up and discovering who you like but it’s okay to let it all unfold slowly and gently, without pressure.

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