[kiwi]

hi im kiwi please help me i really dont know how this has happend but here is the fulll story

me and my boyfriend were going out for allmost 5 months. during french i dumped him 4 a boy who really fancys me. i realsised that this was a big mistake , so i went back out with my bf. weeks later i beat up this boy because he hit me. when i got put in extra time for the day ( a room where you go to when you have had 3 bad behaviour logs in a day). but my boyfriend dumped me because apperently i asked a boy out that morning when i didnt. then we got back together. now ive fallen for a boy in 6th form at school. he is in my art class. ben ( the boy who ive fallen for) is a mate of my boyfriends. i found out i liked hime last week but i really like him and im really shy around him. i have recently got back from holiday.
LAST NIGHT I HAD A DREAM ABOUT BEN. I DREAMT THAT WE WERE IN A POSH CASTLE LIKE HARRY POTTERS ( DONT ASK WHY) . I DREAMT THAT I WAS WALKING DOWN SOME STAIRS ( I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE IN THE SCHOOL, WHEN SUDDENLY BEN RAN DOWN THE STAIRS,GRABBED MY HED AND KISSED ME, WELL IT WAS PURE GOLD!!!! THEN I DREAMT THAT HE PICKED ME UP KISSED ME AGAIN AND HE TOOK ME 2 THE TOP OF THE CASTLE. WE THEN LOOKED AT THE STARS AND I CUDDLED INTO HIM AND WE FELL ASLEEP. THEN I WOKE UP(IN THE DREAM) 2 FIND A ROMANTIC PICNIC!!!! THEN SUDDENLY I GOT WOKE UP!!!! how unfair and now i feel really guilty because my bf dont even know about my crush!!!! what should i do???? help me

[kiwi]

please help me x

[relation]

stabilize your emotions and balance yourself. That is the need of the hour for U.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

I am here to help, and happy to answer any questions you have. 😀

[Natalie Noah]

Your emotions are all over the place right now, which is completely normal at your age. You’ve been navigating relationships, crushes, and complicated feelings all at once, and that can feel overwhelming. First, it’s important to recognize that having a crush or even dreaming about someone else doesn’t make you a “bad” person it just shows your mind is exploring new feelings. What matters most is how you handle those feelings in real life. Right now, you’re feeling guilty about your crush on Ben because you’re still with your boyfriend, and that’s a signal that your values loyalty, honesty, and respect are active in your conscience.

Before making any decisions, it’s crucial to pause and get clarity. Take some time to reflect on what you truly want from your current relationship and what kind of connection you might have with Ben. Acting impulsively on a crush could hurt multiple people, including yourself. Focus on stabilizing your emotions, as your friend wisely suggested, and give yourself space to understand your feelings without pressure. Once you’ve done that, you can approach the situation more calmly whether it’s having an honest conversation with your boyfriend, setting boundaries with Ben, or simply taking time to process your emotions privately. Your dreams and crush are just signals, not instructions you get to choose your next steps carefully.

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