[MiiSz.Tasia]

What do u do when you love to guys? One of them you dated for 9 months and broke up because of no communication… The other u dated for 3 mnths and lives across the country in the Uk… The 3mnth guy ur 6 years older than and the 9mnth one your 2 years apart… Your 9mth ex returns a changed man and fixes sum probs that were wrong b4 he says he still loves and returned only b.c of u… What wud u do?

The 3mth guy gets so jealous when he sees my ex. My ex doesn’t even have to speak to me and he leaves. This is so confusing for me and i have no clue what to do.

[AskApril Masini]

The boyfriend of three months who lives in another country isn’t compatible with you because of the distance. Love and warm feelings are wonderful, but if he’s not there to take you out to dinner or date you — you can’t get to know him. I’m not sure how many dates you’ve been on if you’re both in different countries, but I’m guessing few. So my advice is to let him go and understand that compatibility is crucial to the success of a relationship.

I don’t really know enough about your ex-boyfriend of nine months. It would help to know how long ago you broke up with him and how long he’s been back and whether or not the nine months was an in town or long distance relationship. I’m also not sure what “no communication” as a reason for a break up means. If you tell me more, I can advise you on this relationship better. 😀

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[AskApril Masini]

It sounds like you should let go of your feelings for the guy who lives in another country and pursue your relationship with the one who’s close by! The distance alone (as well as the fact that you haven’t known him that long) seem to be working against the relationship.

I hope that helps!

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